This year something unfortunate happened. It ruined me and my life . It ruined my family and now has caused everyone to hate me.
I would like to know what everyone of you out there reading this blog post has to say about it. Please feel free to comment. Your opinions may help change my life.
At the begining of this year i was very close with my cousins and my fathers sister whom I shall not name. In the past we had our differences but finally we had put them aside and now became freinds.
Everything was going perfect but something had to happen to ruin it all.
They just stopped speaking to me without an explanation and started treating me oddly with hate and blocking me off social media platforms. Very hurt by this i decided to appraoch them wih my father to find out what was going on and what had i done to them.
I went with peace and love to sort out any issues that may have occured that I did not know about that i may have did to hurt these people. I did not want drama…. But drama is all that brewed.
I asked them what was going on and my aunt pretended she knew nothing and then came my horrible and cruel cousins… Walking into the room telling my father they did not want to say anything because they said i knew what i did. ,but i had absolutely no idea. Honest to God i was lost they kept saying “She knows what she did!” Instead of allowing me to speak or telling me what was going on they kept blaming me and i did not know why. They were disreapectful to my father too. Being blamed for something i did not know made me loose my temper too, but i would never physically hurt anyone. Slowly the truth came out.
According to them “someone” had came across messages of which i had sent to my boyfriend in private regarding them in screenshots. I asked them who but they refused to tell me. They said i was a phsycopath and that i would kill the person,but i have never physically hurt a soul in my entire life.
They had messages in which i had vented to my boyfriend about them being horrible to me or me feeling horrible after being in their presence ages ago. Things i had said in anger or sadness and in my depression(i suffer from depression and amxiety) and as someone who has insecurity issues.
Some one had hacked my boyfriends whatsapp and sent them these messages. Some had VIOLATED MY PRIVACY . Hacking is a crime and a violation of privacy. They refuse to believe that and tell me who did this to me. Everyone only believes i deliberately hurt them with the things i said in private to my boyfriend. It was in PRIVATE. i was not feeling well and i was venting. Do i not have a right to vent in private to someone i love. Am i not human and entitled to privacy?
I was horrified and in shock not because they knew what i had said.It was pretty petty things but i did gossip about them. I admit my wrongs and have admitted the wrongs to them in an apology and forgiveness letter. They refuse to forgive me.
In the messages they had …i said that my cousin acts weird because he does not greet. I said they sometimes act like they the best people in the world coz they have money and make other people feel lower than them with the things they speak of. I said the other cousin sometimes thinks shes got the best body because she keeps saying it to me in my pressence and always makes fun of people with curvy bofy types. I even said that i think she copies my style. It was petty things i said in my childish insecure dumb moments to my boyfriend in private!
I was horrified that some person had violated my privacy i was paranoid and scared and hurt and afraid. I didnt know what to do. My parents see it from my side and support me as i was not wrong yess i gossiped but to my boyfriend in private in a state of venting. Not to anyone else.
Do people have a right to violate your privacy to see what you say about them ?
Till this day everyone believes they are right and it was okay that a person violated my privacy(i have reason to believe my cousin hacked my boyfriends whatsapp) to give them these messages.
Is it okay to violate a persons privacy? Is it okay to read conversations a person has with their boyfriend?
Please let me know in the comments section what you think of this
It has ruined me i hate having people hate me and i hate when people cant see right from wrong. How would you feel if someone violated your privacy?
If they can violate my privacy for somthing so irrelevant what else can they violate?
I forgive them but the memory of how everything occured is difficult to overcome and having depression does not make it any easier.
i pray that no one ever goes through the torment of having anything of yours violates. Not your body nor your privacy. It is a crime and i should be dealt with.
Peace and love.